Some people, when they say "sex," only mean vaginal intercourse. If you both did what you did to express your sexual feelings, then you had one of the many kinds of sex we can have.
If "sex" was the answer, the questions would be things like "What am I doing to try and feel good sexually or to express feeling good sexually? What am I doing that feels sexual to me (or to me and a partner)? What am I doing that feels like a way to express my sexuality, or my sexual desires and/or feelings about myself or others?" Sex is any number of different things people freely choose to do to tangibly and actively express or enact their sexuality and their sexual feelings.
Let's start by defining sex, and in a way which includes most people's varied experiences of sex. What I can do to help you with that is give you some definitions, backgrounds and perspective on those terms, some advice on making sexual choices in alignment with what you really want and feel ready for and, hopefully, some comfort.
It's up to you to decide if this was sex and if this had anything to do with virginity.
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